Disability as a State of Mind
Not long ago someone told me about a disability tax credit that I should look into. So I did and as it turned out, I qualified for it and was able to retroactively recoup thousands of dollars from the government. This is always a nice surprise, especially when you’re not expecting it. Later my accountant – who by the way I have known for 35 years – apologized profusely and said – Sorry Teri, I just never think of you as disabled. Truth be told, neither do I!
One of the great struggles we encounter once our lives are changed by a diagnosis, is not to let our lives change. Sure, the way you do things may be altered but the essence of who you are isn’t.
Does that statement resonate with you? If you are newly diagnosed maybe it will help you as you move forward. If you’ve been diagnosed for a long time maybe it will encourage you in some small way. It can be easy (especially after a Canadian winter like the one we are having) to really feel our limitations rather than find a shiny glimmer of optimism.
The greatest thing my neurologist ever said to me (it was a wonderful and brief relationship because I haven’t seen him since) was “run along and have a good life.” So I did and I continue to. Yes, things change – a step forward two steps back a step sideways, but oddly in retrospect those are the words I chose to hang my hat on – have a good life.
Your stories of living life outside of the superimposed limitations of the diagnosis continue to inspire me – thank you for sharing. And it is definitely a choice because it’s really easy to get caught up in the fear factor. 30 years ago we were advised not to push it for fear of “getting worse” – now we know there is just no data to support that. And to the contrary that people who continue to move and do, continue to move and do.
Can we talk about recovery in the face of functional disability? We sure can. And that is what THE MS PATH is all about. Looking at all the brilliant new thinking that is debunking old ideas and creating YOUR NATURAL model for recovery.
How are you doing? What are your dreams and passions? How do you stay connected to them?
Help inspire others by sharing your story here in the comments– or email it to me at teri@terijaklin.com and I will feature it in a blog.
Here’s wishing you a sensational day
Teri
Dr. Teri Jaklin ND, Waterdown, Ontario
P.S. I will be sharing many free videos, seminars, webinars with our web page members over March and into April.
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